A Parent's Guide to Online Gaming, Part 1

The internet touches every aspect of yourFPS stands for First Person Shooter. They are
children's lives. Where you might look up anFirst Person in the same since that a story might
unknown word in a dictionary, your kids are morebe. That is, the player sees the world through the
likely to use Where you use the telephone, theyeyes of a single character and interacts with the
use instant messenger. An even greatergame environment as though he were that
difference can be found in how they play games.character. Shooter comes from the primary goal
Where the games of their parent's generationof most such games, the shooting of whatever
may have involved a board, cards, or at theirhappens to be the bad guy. FPS games are
most sophisticated a console system, the gamesamong some of the most popular online. Common
your children play on the net can be far moreexamples include Doom, Battlefield:1942, and the
complex. They mine gold, spread empires, fightX-Box game Halo. From a parental perspective,
dragons and aliens alone or with tens, hundreds,these games can be cause for concern. They
even thousands of their fellow gamers. All of thisvary widely in the amount of realism, degree of
makes for a confusing mish mash of names,violence, language, and general attitude. The only
places, jargon and lingo that can leave you withway to get a good idea of the content issues is
no idea what your kids are actually doing and ato watch the particular game. If your kids don't
vague feeling of uneasiness that some part of itwant you watching while they play, then fire up
might not be good for them.the game yourself sometime when they aren't
What's appropriate for your kids is a decision onlyaround. There is a sizeable variation in how violent
you can make. How much violence they areand how personal FPS content can be from game
exposed to, how much time they spend in frontto game. The single player portion of Halo, for
of a screen and how much contact they haveexample, has players fighting against alien invaders
with the faceless strangers so common to thewith largely energy weapons and a minimum of
net are all questions you must grapple with and, inrealistic human suffering. In contrast, WWII
the end, decide for your family. While we can'tthemed games tend to go out of their way to
help you make these rough decisions, we canshow realistic violence. Given the subject matter,
certainly help you get the information you need tothis is appropriate for the game, but may not be
understand your children's hobbies better, both tofor your kids. Online play presents a potentially
make informed judgments about what theygreater concern. The goal of online FPS games is
should and should not be doing, and to help youalmost always killing other players. While some
reach into another part of their lives that maygames do have various modes where this is a
have previously seemed like something of asecondary goal, all of them give the player a gun
puzzle box.and encourage him to use it on characters
The Easy Stuffrepresenting other people.
The simplest type of online game is the sort ofSimulated gore and the use of violence against
Flash or Java driven game that you generally seeothers to achieve goals may be things you don't
running inside your web browser. This type ofwant your kids exposed to. Again, these are your
game tends to be relatively simple compared todecisions to make, but we encourage you to
the stand alone games discussed later. Commonmake them with as much information as possible.
examples include Bejeweled, Zuma, and DinerTalk to your kids. Find out what they think, in
Dash. These games are almost universally singletheir words, is going on in the game. Make sure
player and have none of the sort of violent orthey see the line between what happens in the
mature content that keeps parents up at night.game and what happens in the real world,
Were they movies, they would be G Rated, withbetween what it's okay to simulate and what it's
perhaps the occasional game stretching to PG. Ifokay to do. The answers may surprise you. If
this is the type of game your kids are into thenyour children understand the differences, see real
first, be relieved. Then, try the game out. Manyviolence as deplorable and simulated violence as
of these games can be very enjoyable for evenpart of the game then FPS games, even online
the most casual of players. Some, such asones, can be a perfectly healthy way to have fun
Bookworm, even have genuine educationaland let off steam. In the end, it falls on you to
content. These games can be as much anmake sure that what your child gets out of the
opportunity for bonding and learning as throwinggame is good for him or her.
around a baseball in the backyard, and have theNext time, we'll talk about RTS and MMORPG, the
added bonus of being much easier to get yourtwo other common types of commercial online
kids to sit down with you and play.game and touch on the twin demons of addiction
FPSs: Finding Something to Shootand predation.