Baseball Umpiring - You Blew the Game Coach and it Wasn't My Bad Call!

I umpired an extremely competitive and closelyrunner was safe. I told Coach Joe I could care
fought high school baseball game a couple of daysless where he tagged him.
ago. My assignment was to be the field umpireI'm now in foul territory and Coach Joe yells to
and my partner was assigned to home plate. Weme, "That's two calls you blew." (He was referring
had our pregame conference with both headto the other "banger" I had at second base where
coaches and they both seemed like terrific guys.I called the runner safe.) I decided to ignore his
We shake hands and we all wish each other goodlast "parting shot" and simply walk to my car. I
luck. Boy, things can really change in a hurry andwas thinking how every close call an umpire
so can personalities.makes is going to please half the people and the
About the fourth inning, a player on one of theother half are going to be let's say, annoyed.
teams is taking a very HUGE lead off secondI have a thirty minute drive home and obviously
base. After about three pitches, the catchermy thoughts are about my game ending "out call."
throws behind him to second base. EverythingI had very mixed feelings and have two thoughts
looked like the runner was going to be picked off.going through my mind. One is that I got the call
The throw from the catcher arrived at secondright and that's every objective for an umpire so
base and beat the runner there. But the throwwho cares what Coach Joe thinks. The other
was high and the runner had very good speedthought is that I'm slightly bothered because as an
and got back to second base a split secondumpire, a good game is usually when you are not
before being tagged. So I correctly made thenoticed at all. I want the game to be about the
"safe" call. This is when I heard the first of twoplayers and not the coaches or umpires. But in
grumblings from, let's call him Coach Joe. Come onthis case, I was very much in the limelight.
blue...that throw beat him, etc. He whined forAnd then something occurred to me about Coach
about ten seconds so I let it go and didn't say aJoe. He broke a cardinal rule of the game...You
word. If he continued longer than that or if he saidNEVER make the third out of an inning at third
something inappropriate, I would have notbase. So either he thought the runner was safe
hesitated to have a "chat" with him.or possibly he was trying to get the "heat" off
OK, so things settle down and we get back tohim and his poor decision and trying to blame me
playing baseball. That is until the seventh and finalfor HIS huge mistake.
inning. Coach Joe's team is at bat in the seventhI've had two days to digest this and I'm at peace
and final inning and are trailing by a run. They havewith this situation. I truly believe that I got both
a runner on second base, in scoring position,those very close calls (bangers) right. And you
representing the tying run. There are two outsknow what, I too have growled at a few umpires
and they are a base hit away from tying up thein my many years of coaching. And Coach Joe did
game. Like I said, very close and verynot "step over the line." Like I said, for the most
competitive ball game!part I totally ignored him because his griping did
The pitch to the batter is in the dirt and bouncesnot go on for very long or we would have had
away from the catcher, but only about three feetquite a conversation.
away. Coach Joe is coaching third base and yellsHey, I might get to umpire Coach Joe's game
for his runner to break for third base. The runneragain in a couple of weeks. Would I look forward
sprints for third base. The catcher makes a veryto it? My honest answer is, "No, I would not." I
quick and good throw that is slightly high. I knewhave no idea if he holds a grudge or how long he
it was quick, not because I was watching theholds one for.
catcher but by how quickly it arrived to thirdI'll tell you what I am certain of though. I would go
base.into the game with an open mind and make
The third baseman makes a very quick tag andevery call to the absolute best of my ability. I
tags the runner up high, around the chest area.could care less what uniform a player is wearing
Yours truly makes the right call..."He's OUT!" Coachor if Coach Joe is their coach or not.
Joe is very upset. Like I said, personalities canHopefully, Coach Joe and I will do just fine when
change in a hurry on the ball field. I'm walking offand if we meet again. I have a responsibility to
the field and Coach Joe hollers to me, "He got himthe kids on the field to get the call right. My
in the head." I asked Coach Joe what he meantpersonal opinion is that the game should be about
by that. He said that he tagged him up high, thethe players and NOT about coaches or umpires.