| - Listen. The main thing she wants from you is | | | | need to overcome this impulse to "fix" everything |
| that you are interested. If she feels you are | | | | and to "solve" all of the problems and just let her |
| indifferent then that will definitely upset her. I | | | | vent. She needs to release her tension somtimes. |
| understand that it's hard to care about all of the | | | | - Respect Her Wishes. It's likely that she's been |
| small details women care about in regards to | | | | dreaming about her perfect wedding for a long |
| weddings. Just pretend these details are like | | | | time, probably since she was a little girl. If she has |
| baseball statistics or whatever it is that you get | | | | big wishes for her wedding day, respect those |
| interested in. | | | | wishes. Admit it, you haven't been dreaming about |
| - Be Positive. It's important to tell your soon to be | | | | your wedding day since you were a little boy. |
| wife how much you love her and how beautiful | | | | While this day is for both of you, it is likely that |
| she is as often as possible. The build up to a | | | | you will both have a better day if she's pleased |
| wedding can be a very stressful time for a bride. | | | | with how the wedding goes. |
| Be a positive reinforcement in her life. | | | | - Take Her Out. A great way to relieve wedding |
| - How Can You Help? You should be asking her | | | | planning stress is to take her out. Just like you did |
| "How Can I Help?" This will show her that you are | | | | before you started planning for the wedding. It's |
| interested in the wedding as much as she is. | | | | easy for a bride to become overly obsessed with |
| - Let Her Vent. Have you ever read Men are | | | | wedding planning and she may not even realize |
| from Mars, Women are from Venus? One of the | | | | how single minded she has become. If you take |
| main themes of that book is that women like to | | | | her out to the movies or something else like that, |
| talk about their problems or "vent" without | | | | it may help you two to remember why you are |
| necessarily looking for a solution. To men that can | | | | getting married in the first place. |
| seem like a waste of time. As soon as men hear | | | | - "PMS." Don't ever use the term "PMS. |
| about a problem, they want to try to fix it. You | | | | |